I was looking for the music thread to say I am rocking out on Roxette (Joyride), but found this thread instead.
1. I am attracted to the overall physical shape. Most fit girls match this requirement. The only exception seems to be overweight girls.

2. Basic personality of the girl. Do I like her.
Normally I don't get near enough to the girls I am attracted to, to find out about her personality. But it does sometimes happen, that usually end with me having a crush on a girl who is not interested in me.

After I was married, I deliberately stayed away from girls that I was attracted to. There were exceptions to this. Two times I got as far as heavy petting, in both cases I had consumed heavy amounts of alcohol! The only one that involved sex, was with a gay guy. It took me so completely by surprise, that I ended up having a affair, that ended badly.

"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!