Check "my profile" ernie, as I sent you PM about other retreats going on in Maine, sponsored by SARS. Here the link. http://www.sarsonline.org/
Also, a Men's Group has started in Portland. Contact Edgebrook. http://www.edgebrook.org/
I would like to get to know you better, as I am from Maine as well.
It is better to be Dragon Master than Dragon Slayer. Some Dragons are meant to be mastered, others meant to be slain. Odin, Great Spirit, God, grant me the wisdom to know the difference. "May the Valar guide and bless you on your path under the sky"