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Jump to new posts Re: Hi I am new here by Donald177 @ 04/19/17 10:12 AM

HBUL, Welcome to MS. Like many have already said, I am sorry that you have to be here, but I am glad you have found this site to help in your healing process. You will find that there are lots of wonderful men here willing to help you heal by offeri
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Jump to new posts Re: Where do I go from here by HealingHope @ 04/19/17 05:29 AM

Feeling foolish today, losing hope again...somethings bound to have triggered me. Feeling I've let him down, I should have seen the signs. I should have realised how hard everything was for him when everything flooded back. Why do we not read the
Jump to new posts Re: A session by Ceremony @ 04/19/17 03:05 AM

I find it hard to trust the weight skewed unjust and I meet it with tears balled up knot of fears an easy prey a sociopath may know how easily I make their day And no T will know the simplicity to sow a missing piece, an innocent dove lost and craved
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Inner child by Shyshark @ 04/18/17 09:33 PM

Three-ish years ago I came across an old post where a guy was talking about his inner child and how he had put a pic of himself up as his Avatar ... to remind him that when all is said and done ... he was just a little boy. He only got a few tepid re
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Jump to new posts Spotlight's Joe Crowley Passes, Happy At the End by KMCINVA @ 04/18/17 04:44 PM

The story of one of the first victims of the sexual abuse travesty in Boston's Catholic Church died. He was portrayed in the movie Spotlight. I was glad he was happy at the end for he struggled throughout life like many of us. http://www.bostonglob
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Jump to new posts Re: BIG STEP - TRIGGERS by manipulated @ 04/18/17 10:53 AM

Lee In the midst of crisis and health/family chaos you beat down the flashback! Outstanding internal strength, wisdom in recognizing what was happening and what you needed to do to stay/return present, and courage to face that brush and prove beyon
Jump to new posts Re: depresssion by Ceremony @ 04/18/17 09:46 AM

That is me newgroud. Sad flow...
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Jump to new posts Re: Checking in (Trigger Warnings) by LordShiningStarr @ 04/17/17 10:57 PM

I'm going to do my best to make sure the actual attack does not get dramatized. The idea is to build a lead up, and then "Fade to Black" The main goal of the story is to describe the events that took place leading up to, and after the att
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Jump to new posts Re: Denying the Survivor by DanielQ432 @ 04/17/17 09:53 PM

I really haven't discussed this with very many people. Most are 'paid to listen' - various medical professionals. I can say I was leery of opening the box of CSA with my current therapist and never would have told the prior ones. I was ashamed/emb
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Jump to new posts Re: Bey by AlexBoyd @ 04/17/17 09:18 PM

Shy, You said exactly what Ben would want to hear...smiles and laughter. He made his mark here.
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Jump to new posts Re: My attacker's perspective ***triggers***? by Chase Eric @ 04/17/17 07:58 PM

Hi, Bri - Our conversations were in person. I have had several discussions with him. He is in a psychiatric step-down unit now and almost ready for release. As far as protecting the girls and absorbing the "hell" in the neighborhood -
Jump to new posts Re: Darknrss by tommyb @ 04/17/17 11:45 AM

'Just read your story from beginning to end, nltsaved.... 'Always good having your presence around. Sorry I had to edit this post. I guess it's all written word, you know. So I can't just candidly ... The internet is very dangerous in reality .
Jump to new posts Re: Running out of words by KMCINVA @ 04/17/17 07:54 AM

Tryingtolive I am sorry for your pain. Your words are insightful. One line hit me "trying to forget the past" is our struggle. I am learning we cannot forget the past but rather learn to live with the past--for it is a part of us that can
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