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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Just to Hear me say it....Possible Trigger..... by Ceremony @ 02/21/17 08:57 PM

Welcome Trew, That must be very hard to write and stay in the moment? There's so much wrapped up in the layers of what happened, surviving and living. Living since it's a bit surreal. Like, "What now?" makes total sense. Sometimes I get f
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: my relationship guide by greenwizard @ 02/21/17 08:51 PM

The way I see things, she does things for me all the time. It doesn't kill me to give a little back. She got a lot of joy out of it I think. It wasn't as bad as I was afraid it might be.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ 02/21/17 08:24 PM

Health and Wellbeing
Jump to new posts Re: ANGER by Winterfr3sh @ 02/21/17 06:36 PM

Originally Posted By CeremonyHello, I've a lot of experience with anger. From 16-ish to now. Too many stories about what I think, so... Ok, The most important thing to me at present is my anger of perception. The perceived threats of real vs imagin
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Whole again chapter 1 by BDD @ 02/21/17 06:09 PM

Rich, I will need to come back to this again and again. I am a slow reader and this is so packed and fish. Thank you for writing it, your words are strong and true.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The boy warrior by jas4159 @ 02/21/17 01:58 PM

thanks Elad1. i also like Tao Te Ching.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: my message to all abusers by jas4159 @ 02/21/17 01:55 PM

thanks everyone. I am really touched.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: chapter 4 Whole again by jas4159 @ 02/21/17 01:48 PM

Thank u james. and no problem with the humor. it is kinda funny. but i am glad it touched u. there are fourteenn more chapters that i will post over time. or u can read it in its entirety. copy and paste the link below. it was an incredible tri
Jump to new posts Re: Questions with no answers. by tommyb @ 02/21/17 01:03 PM

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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Complicated truth. Will it set me free? by oic @ 02/21/17 12:16 PM

(((Ceremony))) Sounds mutual & not one sided & that is always refreshing for me. Thank u & everyone big time!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is something wrong with me? (possible triggers) by greenwizard @ 02/21/17 11:47 AM

Thanks everyone. After some sleep I feel a little better. It took a lot of tossing and turning, but at some point I fell asleep. My girlfriend also did lots of assuring that she loves me for who I am. My girlfriend knows, my father's death was
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Thoughts on Dealing With OCD, CSA, and SSA by 1islandboy @ 02/21/17 02:35 AM

Bradley, Funny you should mention, "50 First Dates" I have been called that many times by my friends, in a joking fashion. The whole OCD thing has calmed down for me, (I respect it can come back at anytime). I used to have a thing for l
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: cut off by MojaveMike @ 02/21/17 12:32 AM

Sounds brutal, no matter the history it has to hurt.
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Trouble un-twisting the truth by MojaveMike @ 02/20/17 11:23 PM

Protect Our Defenders has a discussion forum but nobody ever posts there.
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Help Dealing with Porn by Trew @ 02/20/17 09:50 PM

Most of my life I didn't remember the abuse that happened to me. It was placed in a box and put away for what was probably meant to be forever. The only way I think it ever emerged was through a dream I would have on and off for most of my adult life
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Progress I Have Been Told by KMCINVA @ 02/20/17 08:35 PM

Greenwizard It is the process--the church has generally been good and supportive. But the process involves many and it complicates it for everyone. I do not want to throw them under the bus, yet. It is just the reliving of the memories over and ove
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Envying Perpetrators by JohnnyC @ 02/20/17 07:54 PM

The fact we are all here, all getting better, proves we are strong. Sadly, so many boys and men have been swallowed by the darkness -- addiction, suicide, denial, self-hatred, etc.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When I wanna dance by Ceremony @ 02/20/17 07:34 PM

Might as well Jump... yeah, probably comin soon to this thread, but this, this is jumpin' in the crowd to New Order. A band that's got me to live. Helped me make it. Really, it's too much, This is dance therapy for me... bobbin my head, to my hips, s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: i am back by illbedat @ 02/20/17 06:03 PM

Thank you guys and welcome to all new comers. Hope you find what youre looking for.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
That was well worth reading, Thanks Island
Jump to new posts Re: MojaveMike just joined by greenwizard @ 02/20/17 02:40 PM

Hello MojaveMike. This really is a great place to talk about stuff and have people who understand.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Untangling Anxiety Disorder Symptom***TRIGGERS*** by MojaveMike @ 02/20/17 01:18 PM

Radical Acceptance. That is what I think of when I read your post. Dissociation, confusion, frustration. You were able to write about some intense identity issues in a clear and powerful way. I am glad you wrote this it helps me to see more clearly t
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Adoptive parental abuse by New47bliss @ 02/19/17 09:47 PM

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