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Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: Vulnerability by Celtaf @ Today at 03:45 AM

I'm not sure that I do. I haven't seen much in the way of responses to that sort of thing. I'm glad you find this inspiring for yourself, but does anyone recall how Michael Jackson sang a similar theme "Will You Be There". Then he came unde
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Accepting reality by smc1972 @ Today at 03:33 AM

I just want to I appreciate the post and things everyone has shared with me the support and sharing. I know I am not alone in this and I know things could have been worse. But I have admit this is probably the lowest I have ever felt. I know what hap
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Used Porn as a release by SDD757 @ Yesterday at 06:14 PM

Well, it's an issue if it's an issue to you. You have a sexual behavior that you can't seem to stop. Obviously, there is a connection to hormones, stress and anxiety levels. If it interferes with your life, relationships and well being then it's self
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Huge struggle, sorry to burden brothers by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 05:07 PM

Hey my friend ... I'm not doing so well myself. I take Welbutrin XL but it alone is not enough. Ask your doctor about adding Lamotrigine. The two together have kept me relatively stable for years. I also take Lithium for the Bipolar but I don't recom
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Trans/Gender issues by SDD757 @ Yesterday at 01:08 PM

I'm starting to realize that this may be part of DID (multiple personalities)...
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Manna from Heaven by SDD757 @ Yesterday at 01:03 PM

Feeliing Shame: Roman 9:33 “whoever believes in Him will not be put to shame” Feeling Inferior: Galatians 3:28 “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor master, male nor female for we are all one in Christ” Feeling Confused: 1 Cor. 14:33
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: My confusion by smichael @ Yesterday at 04:08 AM

Toad, Thank you for the post you said some things that makes sense. I just ang struggling with things. Really I just wish I could turn things off. Not remembering things bothers me scares me actually. As for asking my mom I am ashamed to say at th
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: Favorite T-shirt Slogans/Bumperstickers by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 02:16 AM

Our neighbor had a Mercedes 560SL roadster with a license plate frame that read, "My other car is a Mercedes." It was true. They also had a 420 SEL sedan. WTF.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Married men. by Suwanee @ Yesterday at 02:05 AM

I didn't tell my wife until ten years or so after we were married. During the Boy Scouts "Perversion File" release along with the Penn State/Jerry Sandusky revelations (damn, I hate that name), I began to unravel. On a business trip, I sat
Jump to new posts Re: Kid Humor by Harry @ 02/20/18 11:41 PM

blacken, CelloL, these are great! I'll add one of my favorites: 2 olives walk into a bar. They hop onto stools at the bar but one of them falls down. The one on the stool asks the one who fell, "Are you all right?" The one on the ground
Jump to new posts that boy by zip14 @ 02/20/18 10:27 PM

i never thought that i'd be here thought that i'd just disappear bad stuff happens, deal with it kid u shut up, carry on, just tighten the lid on the box on the shelf where the bad shit rests i opened it up and opened my chest to a soul that is infec
Jump to new posts Re: fishing for feedback by zip14 @ 02/20/18 09:19 PM

Great stuff. Thx
Male Survivors
Hi Jamesm I am sorry for what you are going through. i was violently raped and gang rape it cause injury as teenager. Sorry I can not talk much about it. It took 5 surgeries to repair the damage. The damage is always in the reports from colonosco
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Things boys discover by Toad @ 02/20/18 02:53 PM

I learned that if you buy a compound bow and metal tipped arrows at a garage sale and shoot a target 20 feet away. It will go through the target, through the fence and stick in the side of the neighbors car. But if you pull it out and run no one will
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Life is Precious by Casmir213 @ 02/20/18 01:48 AM

Hi Kevin. I'm very sorry to hear of your friend's prognosis. Your description of how he supported you during your difficult time says to me that he is a good person. I understand your need to vent and share your experience here. You are going thr
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Strong boy, weak man by BDD @ 02/19/18 10:56 AM

Echoes, I can't thank you enough for posting this. It has open waves of realizations! My head and heart are yelling (in a good way): • Every single one of us SURVIVED! That takes strength. To endure your abuse and then to carry on afterwards...TO
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Breakthrough! by Surya25 @ 02/18/18 09:07 PM

That's awesome! I think a lot of us can relate to the difficulty of finding a T that fits well. Also, glad you're addressing your porn addiction, I'm doing the same. Having some sort of sexual addiction or compulsion seems common among survivors. Wis
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Started Therapy...Feeling hopeful by Chris4TheMill @ 02/18/18 06:02 PM

Surya25, Yes, that is a good point about it being a bigger thing for men to ask for help because men are taught that asking for help is a sign of weakness. In my case, I was not thinking as much about the "men shouldn't do this" back the
Jump to new posts Re: Charlie Walker by LinEar @ 02/18/18 04:05 PM

Love it. Thank you v_v.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Parents-Trigger by Surya25 @ 02/18/18 02:32 AM

This sounds very complex and certainly no one here would be able to tell you if what your parents did was okay or not. It's hard to tell if they had good intentions and they ended up taking things too far or if they were getting some sexual enjoyment
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Birthday memory - Trigger by smc1972 @ 02/18/18 12:23 AM

I guess I still struggle with how I take back control. I allowed myself to enjoy things then and as I got to be older I would be the one at times to start things. Even now the memories come in to my sex life as mush as I want it to stop I can’t see
Men Abused/Assaulted as Adults
Jump to new posts Re: The Constant Anger by JamesM @ 02/17/18 11:54 PM

I felt a deep sadness and started crying when I read your submission. My anger is deeply hidden, since it makes me want to kill my abusers. I remember the anger when I was sexually abused again as a child but afterwards I felt only hurt and confused.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling bad about feeling better by Casmir213 @ 02/17/18 04:01 PM

Hi Lee. If you could bring to that memory of abuse the knowledge that you are no longer that bullied adolescent and currently have all the resources of an adult to defend yourself with, regardless of how hard your abs are, it may help you to feel em
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Could I get an opinion? by SDD757 @ 02/17/18 10:05 AM

There is a lot of good advice here. It’s understandable that you have some confusion. It’s okay. Many people are confused that have not been abused. I would add, look up Joe Kort on YouTube. He has lots of good information on what you are deali
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The 2 people in my head by Casmir213 @ 02/17/18 01:52 AM

Hi tbkkfile. From your description it sounds to me like you're kind of stuck between a retreat from a difficult present time and the memories of your abuse. If that's the case, it's understandable that you are seeking a safe place to go in the way
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