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Yale Research Project
Jump to new posts Re: Fourth Discussion Question: Barriers by SubtleStuff @ Yesterday at 11:40 PM

I've never before this been aware of researchers that were seeking the participation of male survivors in a study.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Eulogy for My Molester by Chase Eric @ Yesterday at 11:31 PM

Thank you Daniel and CIDT. I am not sure I deserve the praise you shared, CIDT, but I do thank you and certainly appreciate the spirit of your words. They do lift me up. That said, I am falling back into a weird pattern of accidents. I slipped al
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: In a funk or just F..... by zookeeper @ Yesterday at 11:01 PM

Sometimes words are my worst enemy. The more I write and talk the deeper my mood gets. So let me give what I have left (((((blue sky)))))) Brian
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Barry Crimmins by Chris4TheMill @ Yesterday at 10:15 PM

I have not heard of him, but thanks for informing us about this.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Barry Crimmins by HowardCosell1990 @ Yesterday at 09:49 PM

Have any of you guys followed the story of the comedian Barry Crimmins? He was big in the '80s, very funny, often political, helped break other folks in like Bobcat Goldthwait and Tom Kenny. He was raped as a young boy and in the '90s worked to tackl
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hi guys - I'm the dirty little hero by lapchinj @ Yesterday at 09:45 PM

Hey πŸ’˜ EricπŸ’˜ You are number one in my book πŸ† . I've heard enough of your story over the last few years, since I've been here, and you always called yourself "dirty". I don't think that is at all accurate. I know from earlier discus
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Her by Tom E. @ Yesterday at 09:24 PM

YES... unconditional love conquers all.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: I'm a protector by LinEar @ Yesterday at 09:00 PM

dac/physicsfriend: Not off topic at all. Good on you for recognizing the need to be "selfish", i.e., appropriately taking care of yourself first! Self-loathing, as you mentioned, is yet another topic that usually comes wrapped up in codepen
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Pick yourself up dust yourself off restart again!? by Broknwings @ Yesterday at 08:51 PM

hitting restart is exactly what I call it in fact.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Her by anonDK @ Yesterday at 07:45 PM

i thought it was so easy but the more i learn the more i know that monsters aren't under my bed or around me they are inside my head they are plenty some of them are nice and seem even nicer when greeted with a hug one of them seem nice she looks all
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Test - Challenge by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 07:04 PM

Hi Elad ... Does he know about your abuse? also ... Does he come to your home?
Poetry
Jump to new posts This is how it is. A continuation of Tante by bluesky @ Yesterday at 06:27 PM

Continuation of Tante. This is the sadness that I live. This is the feeling that I feel. This is the pain of my wounds. This is that ghost that haunts my mind and body. This is the death of a child that still lives. This is the call of my hea
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hey guys - I do understand now - UPDATED 05/23 by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 05:59 PM

Thank you CIDT, Quote: I'm my parents now, and I tell me I love me and I'm proud of myself every day without fail
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Gratitude and Reveral by sorryson @ Yesterday at 05:57 PM

Wreckage you are not a wreck you are a rising piece of art. You are fighting and finding positive words. Keep going and you will see you have done more to get better than you know. Paul
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: EFT Therapy by sorryson @ Yesterday at 05:54 PM

Kevin I give you credit for trying new things to feel better. I know you will find the right one. You have been through so much lately. I do hope the church comes through but do not count on them. They are like all those Catholics who turn on survivo
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: I want to talk with other survivors of fem. abuse by anonDK @ Yesterday at 05:51 PM

Thank you for sharing, all of you. These fantasies are a bit disturbing to me, but therapist affirmed that this is a normal, healthy reaction. That comforted me, in a way. Mutilation fantasies about slitting her throat slowly with a razor blade stuff
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: not such a good day by sorryson @ Yesterday at 05:47 PM

I am sorry for your grandma. You seemed to close to her and that makes it hard. I hope you take care of yourself and were able to say goodbye. I have that regret for my Dad because of my stupidity. We were estranged and he died and now I know he wa
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: low self esteem by sorryson @ Yesterday at 05:45 PM

I hate being complimented. I do not believe I deserve it. I can compliment everyone else but me no. I always put myself down thinking why would anyone say I did a good job. It has hurt because so many self promote themselves and seem to get ahead
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts My (bi)sexual identity by dac @ Yesterday at 05:38 PM

There are many discussions around here about same sex attraction and sexual orientation, so I thought I would just share my own perspective about myself. It seems that many male survivors of sexual abuse share common traits, as well as many differen
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hey guys - I do understand now - UPDATED 05/23 by Can_I_Do_This @ Yesterday at 04:49 PM

Such a fantastic series of enlightened posts, I am so happy and proud to be part of this group. Daniel, good lord, I feel for what you went thru in 2012. Workplace violence is terrifying and my heart goes out to what you experienced and the painful
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Eulogy for My Molester by DanielQ432 @ Yesterday at 04:35 PM

Chase Eric, you did a wonderful job of expressing your feelings there. Death is hard, and complex. When my father died, despite everything, I would have looked like the most heartbroken, crushed son at his funeral. I spent several days, when he
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Eulogy for My Molester by Can_I_Do_This @ Yesterday at 04:20 PM

Hey Eric, Your eulogy is one of the most amazing things I've ever read in my life. Unbelievably concise and absolutely beautifully stated. They say the death of an abuser can be a freeing feeling, as it's been for your Sister, and it's fine for you
Survivors of Female Abuse
Jump to new posts Re: I want to talk with other survivors of fem. abuse by LinEar @ Yesterday at 04:14 PM

anonDK: Yes, I relate to those fantasies, although my perps were male so I'm not sure if that's exactly what you're looking for. Either way, in my therapy we're currently doing IFS/"parts work." I have an angry part whose violent fantasie
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: not such a good day by Tom E. @ Yesterday at 03:59 PM

greenwizard I'm very sorry for your loss.
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: warrior I Am by Tom E. @ Yesterday at 03:58 PM

Elad1 You are strong. We survivors are strong.
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