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Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by GMan @ Yesterday at 06:14 PM

Hi all. I hope you don't mind me commenting. I, too, agree with the word "rape." I had always referred to what happened to me in as molestation but that is not what it was. I was abducted and I was raped, at knife-point. I was trapped
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 06:08 PM

Thank you Michael, I appreciate the compassion you're showing and an explanation of your take. I agree with you about using the word "rape". I wasn't molested then. I was a take over of my body, and I had no choice. Thank you kind sir, B
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 06:00 PM

Hello Streling. Thanks for the nice post in Poetry. I've read some. I see a lot of confusion. I have a question, but I'm new, I'm just curious, and mainly because I have been on a blog for nearing 1.5 years and see a lot of issues from it. Issues I
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Why am I so sad? by zookeeper @ Yesterday at 05:36 PM

Ah but Michael, I DO care so very much. You have so much value as a human being, and an artist and a friend and for a hundred reasons more. YOU are of great worth and we very much want to hear what you have to say. I feel a similar feeling about my
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Yesterday at 04:50 PM

thanks guys i love you.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Yesterday at 04:37 PM

i like but i dont like that is thing. i dont wknow as;ldkfja;ljk what I f I watch o porn thou. then what? I need money fuck I hate this. and the thing is that I really messed how do I let go that I hurt my body/ I neee d a woman. (giggliin f
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Yesterday at 04:15 PM

why cant he accept being gay? who bilie. why would her mom do this shit? she si fucking metn mental. all i have tshi. i dont have anything else really. i live in toronto and love it. i cant go to church street? i dont know i needed family. and
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by GMan @ Yesterday at 04:13 PM

Manipulative. Cunning. Crafty. Experienced. Got me interested in his bicycle and then blocked me in with it. Appealed to my sense of adventure telling me he wanted me to go "hunt rabbits" with him. Pulled a knife and told me he "
Introductions
Jump to new posts GMan Intro by GMan @ Yesterday at 04:05 PM

Greetings everyone. I was abducted and raped by a stranger when I was 9 years old. I still have a hard time believing how this one event could have such a significant and lasting impact on me for so long. The event happened nearly 48 years ago.
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Sterling @ Yesterday at 03:47 PM

I don't know what to do.... I just googled, or searched this "penis fixation" I am soooo tired. I don't know if I am a girl or ??? my real father wouldn't allow me to be! I am so tired of this. I don't want to be this or that way. I
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: Anger by Sterling @ Yesterday at 02:45 PM

hug yourself. You're a good guy. I am new to self-compassion. Thanks for writing out your anger Ceremony. we're here to protect one another from the past, keeping it there! If this doesn't mean anything, I am sorry. I just don't want guys here to
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: Hello, I'm back with some amazing news by PhoenixRising @ Yesterday at 02:41 PM

Beautiful!!
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by honorableman @ Yesterday at 02:16 PM

Hi Ceremony, I read your story and just wanted you to know that I too was assaulted/raped by two people - in my case my boss, a woman and her husband. I was young like you. It was not your fault and you can heal and rise above it. One can be raped
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by SayItRight @ Yesterday at 12:25 PM

The characteristics most pertinent to my recovery at this time: 1) that there was more than one; 2) that they were violent; 3) the ways they were manipulative; 4) one's incredibly bad breath. SayIt
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hello, I'm back with some amazing news by dark empathy @ Yesterday at 11:40 AM

@bluesky thanks for that, much appreciated. I don't know if I really am as you describe, but I really appreciate your words and understand the love behind them, particularly since you've definitely seen me at the opposite end of things.
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 11:02 AM

Hello Mothman, I'm also new. I wrote my survivor story in a simple word processor program, then pasted it into that forum. The staff here takes the post, and posts it in a few days or so? I didn't edit the final result and it's a bit tight or compact
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Chosen by Syfer @ Yesterday at 10:49 AM

I only recently discovered the documentary 'Chosen' is on You Tube. It is not a 'soft focus' production and pulls no punches. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WoOzqebOU1k
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Hello, I'm back with some amazing news by bluesky @ Yesterday at 09:17 AM

Congratulations Luke. I was so happy for you when you met your now wife. You where sharing your life with us and it was and is an honor. You are a brave and strong man in the face of many difficulties you are making life work. I wish you both many y
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by WG @ Yesterday at 08:59 AM

Hey, mothman - I think one of the admin guys will need to answer you on this......
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by jolei @ Yesterday at 02:32 AM

Manipulative of course, after convincing my mom to relenquish our safety, welfare, and name he convinced family and friends that he was a savior. Controlling and often unpredictable. Indulgent to the point of financial ruin. Sadistic to an extent, I
Introductions
Jump to new posts Hello by Mothman @ Yesterday at 01:34 AM

Hi I'm new to the website, I was hoping to share an essay I have written regarding CSA but there doesn't appear to be the ability to upload documents. Is anyone aware of a way that I could share it with survivors here besides copy and pasting it from
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Reporting, take two. by ForeverFighting @ 09/24/16 11:27 PM

I feel so bad for you, BFree. Nobody should have to be under that much pressure. You're amazing to me. With all that you have been dealing with lately, you are still protecting others. I hope your health calms down. I can't imagine how horrible
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by ForeverFighting @ 09/24/16 11:23 PM

Competitive aggression. To this day I wonder if my uncle didn't just use me to prove some weird power thing in his own mind towards my "sperm donor", his brother.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Why am I so sad? by ForeverFighting @ 09/24/16 11:21 PM

Thanks guys. I did see your link, Rick. Thank you for that. My therapist has worked with me a lot to do that kind of grounding work--keep myself in the here and now. The problem sometimes is that I think I am here and now, but I'm not. Luke, I a
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by Chase Eric @ 09/24/16 05:19 PM

One Characteristic? Here's 4. Pick one. Schmoozer. Had my mom eating out of the palm of his hand. Can Eirik come with me, Mrs. R? Sure. Can he sleep in the tent with me, Mrs. R? I'll be sure he'll be asleep by 10. Sure, go ahead. They were l
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