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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "Me, too" thing on social media by Ceremony @ 10/18/17 01:43 AM

I've not had the chance to attend a WOR. I have had a chance to attend a CSA Group, but it was mixed. I decided I didn't like that. I don't think I could go into much of the SSA ideation that can sometimes occur. I don't mind the SSA though, so kind
Family and Friends
Jump to new posts Re: New to the forum / pushing and pulling by Golden_Phoenix @ 10/18/17 01:38 AM

Thank you very much for your messages... I will reply very soon.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: *trigger* Casual sex and incest by iaccus @ 10/18/17 01:34 AM

Maybe this is a stupid thing to say here, but the cop in me wants to suggest that maybe its worth looking into whether this is legal or not. I know for a fact it's not where we live. Just a thought.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "Me, too" thing on social media by iaccus @ 10/18/17 01:24 AM

Originally Posted By manipulated But at the same time I am struggling to understand the coed Weekends that MS and the other org started. I am not sure I would have attended any and certainly did not even consider returning this year after it was anno
Poetry
Jump to new posts Re: "I remember" **** superTriggers**** by victor-victim @ 10/18/17 01:19 AM

intense
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Looking at 12 years back by Chris4TheMill @ 10/18/17 01:02 AM

Originally Posted By ShysharkPatience. Arguably dedication to ones healing comes closely behind ... but in many ways one doesn't happen without the other. You only get back from what you give out. Here's a story about the truth of these words: Back
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Looking at 12 years back by Shyshark @ 10/18/17 12:08 AM

BTW ... I love my inner child to bits!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Looking at 12 years back by Shyshark @ 10/18/17 12:07 AM

Hi alexey ... I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you before ... I'm glad I am now. Thank you for sharing your experience here in MS. So many guys have questions and doubts about the value of being here. There are a number of reasons why MS doe
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Buddies and Profile Pictures by Ceremony @ 10/17/17 11:43 PM

I'm not quite as formal as Chris, and I add buddies who I find out have added me. I too add those whom I've had a chance to make a connection with... I lag some on buddies... Ok, So, I go to their profile and there I can add them. Then my profile p
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Looking at 12 years back by Ceremony @ 10/17/17 11:40 PM

It's good to see old timers stop back. To note that such time passes and there is continued stability is encouraging. Thanks Alexey. I'm rather new here, and have found it helps me too. I'm working on a lot of therapy process and do a lot of writing
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Looking at 12 years back by alexey @ 10/17/17 11:01 PM

Hello men, It has been 12 years since I started my journey with the help of this site. Are you new here? Believe me this experience encourages you to heal, to live. Did we talk before? I am glad I can knock on the door and meet you. Is it worth i
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Used Porn as a release by Chris4TheMill @ 10/17/17 09:50 PM

Originally Posted By JayBro the release is a drug of sorts and for me, porn can be like a form of self-harming, such as cutting, which causes pain but a temporary release from emotional pain. These moments have greatly decreased for me but there are
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Double Standards (Possible Trigger Warning) by dark empathy @ 10/17/17 09:45 PM

I actually had an interesting experience of this last year, and one thankfully my lady fixed. My lady's sister in law is a lovely person, but growing up in a dysfunctional family she acquired some bad habits. One of these is to actually fairly for
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Double Standards (Possible Trigger Warning) by Blue22 @ 10/17/17 09:31 PM

It's assault, no matter who it happens to or who does it.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "Me, too" thing on social media by Blue22 @ 10/17/17 09:29 PM

If society truly wants equality, we have to point out that seeing this as a gendered issue is wrong. "If all the women" is a gendered statement, and that is wrong. Yes, I know we happen to likely be a minority in this class of #MeToo-dom,
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Used Porn as a release by Eternal18 @ 10/17/17 09:24 PM

To each his own. But for me porn has been holding my hand all the way along a very sad frustrating road to recovery from CSA. At times I have used it too much. Into my mid 30s I was hardly sexual anymore at all. Thought it was normal. Stopped my an
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: "Me, too" thing on social media by Eternal18 @ 10/17/17 08:57 PM

We are the lost boys from Peter Pan. No one out their gives a hoot. But we persevere.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Double Standards (Possible Trigger Warning) by LinEar @ 10/17/17 08:41 PM

Absolutely, Chris. It's a sign of poor/nonexistent boundaries.
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Buddies and Profile Pictures by LinEar @ 10/17/17 08:38 PM

Profile photos disappear for me once I log in. They're visible when I'm not logged in. Maybe it's a setting that I chose at some point.
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: i dont love you. by Sterling @ 10/17/17 08:03 PM

Thank you Rick for being very supportive. It isn't easy to be supportive all the time. Thanks manipulated .Very inspiring , caring words . I needed this! You guys are incredible. love you. James
Off Topic
Jump to new posts Re: i dont love you. by Sterling @ 10/17/17 08:01 PM

https://www.google.ca/search?source=hp&a...1.0.LVTs6ZrPtQk asdfsdkfjldddkd can be good I will be better I will be stronger. I don't need you. or you. but I do need some. left.right. focus. ineed to focus shwan may think. I want to leave that place.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Pandora's Box Has Been Opened and Now it's Gushing by Bluedogone @ 10/17/17 07:43 PM

Seventy two hours until Friday seems like a short time - UNLESS you're filled with anxiety, depression and unmanageable stress. It's good you've made the resolve to seek the hospitalization route. You've held on before, you know you can do it again
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: long time, no me by Esterio @ 10/17/17 07:31 PM

Hi usmc97 Welcome back. Glad to have had conversations with you in the chat room. Life is hard and throws us lots of curve balls. Myself it is one day today that I am trying to get through. Glad you came back sorry for what you have been through it
Introductions
Jump to new posts Re: My Messed Up Life by Esterio @ 10/17/17 05:58 PM

Welcome JBoogz I'm sorry for what you went through. I think coming here will help you realize this was not your fault things happen. If Parents don't watch other their kids someone will. I am sorry for you years of pain and manipulation you su
Discussion Board Questions
Jump to new posts Re: Buddies and Profile Pictures by Chris4TheMill @ 10/17/17 05:56 PM

We all have shame in some areas of our life that we are wrestling with. None of us knows all the secrets of everyone here or outside. That said, best to do what makes you feel comfortable for where you are right now.
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