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Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Advice Needed by SupportiveOne @ 20 minutes 38 seconds ago

My husband has a similar problem. His is because he has masterbated so frequently (many times a day) to worse and worse gay porn that he became immune to its effects and couldn't maintain an erection long enough to finish himself while masterbating o
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The Map by ForeverFighting @ 47 minutes 33 seconds ago

I understand what you’re saying, Zoo. For me, the scars are validation that I was a victim. Maybe that’s messed up, but with so little reality in my young life, a scar was proof that this was real. I was injured, and if I had had a choice in t
Male Survivors
Logan you describe my life exactly ,everybody tells me it was abuse ,inside i don't understand that .maybe i do know it was abuse .convincing the kid inside that it was is another story. i didn't know it was abuse till someone told was just my
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bible Study (notes) by nltsaved @ Today at 02:21 PM

Bible study (notes) 8/21/2016 What am I building in my Heart Anytime that I find myself not walking in the newness of Christ then I am walking in self. If I do not not own the things where I am weak in then I will never change those things into s
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by BFree27 @ Today at 01:33 PM

Writing out your abuse and giving it to the police.. if it's something you're thinking about doing. Do it. Don't let your abuser tell you no one will believe you. Of course they're going to tell you that. They don't want to be arrested. My parents w
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts ad misleads to imply trans people abuse kids by Jacob S @ Today at 01:00 PM Quote:"At 9 I was molested by a teenager. When I found out that President Obama and Roy Cooper want to force schoolchildren to share the same locker room, shower and restroom with
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Sexually Confused by manipulated @ Today at 12:20 PM

Originally Posted By DannyTI'm starting to think the whole labeling thing doesn't make any sense. I'm neither gay nor straight nor bi nor asexual. I'm just myself with my own blend of issues around sex. Danny Exactly! Really sick of the polarizat
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The little boy's 2 worlds--Triggers by ForeverFighting @ Today at 11:35 AM

Thank you so much guys. I've been hearing this advice a lot lately to rest and not to try too hard. I think I need to let up on the gas a little. I got to thinking about that, too. "Families like ours" don't get sick. I remember, serio
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Would I Have Acted Differently by woodenshoes @ Today at 09:04 AM

Samurai Sorry your experiencing such trauma. It's hard to overcome the guilt and shame. We can heal with the love and kindness from our supporters who know we are not the abuser. Take care.
Jump to new posts Re: How do I by woodenshoes @ Today at 08:55 AM

Ttl One day One step One issue One person One healing One forgiving You must take your time in between each step along the healing path and you will succeed.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Its Taken Too Long by Elad1 @ Today at 03:28 AM

Zookeeper Well done, this letter is very well articulated and expresses self compassion. It is never to late and I am glad you are taking care of you inner child, it is important to acknowledge that he is still in you and that you love him and will
Jump to new posts Re: smiles or tears by woodenshoes @ Yesterday at 11:17 PM

((((((((((shyshark))))))))) As long as we breath we must endure. You in my thoughts. Ws
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts r*pist gets no jail time so he can go to college by Jacob S @ Yesterday at 04:57 PM
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Feeling anxious. Acting out. by Nothing Man @ Yesterday at 04:32 PM

Hi bluesky, I can certainly identify with your conundrum. I was laid off from my job of more than a decade six weeks ago and I have not been able to find any work since. I am despairing that I will have to settle for a crap job with meaningless w
Male Survivors
andrewmo - The feeling will come and go. It does with me, it does with all of us. It took a long time - years - before I felt OK to be angry about what was done to me. It came out in other ways - short tempered with my wife or children or someone - a
Jump to new posts Re: I joined today and want to say HI to you by WG @ Yesterday at 08:44 AM

Welcome, and at the same time sorry you have to be here. We understand. This is a safe place.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: anger, revenge, forgiveness by Logan @ Yesterday at 12:38 AM

I wanted to bump up this thread because i think that there is a ton a valuable info here and that there are many issues that at least i know that I personally struggle with and would like to discuss further at a later time. -Logan
Survivor Stories
Jump to new posts TW: What happened. by PhoenixA @ 08/22/16 08:16 PM

I don't even know if I'm going to be able to post this but it seems like it might be a good idea, I mean I did come here so that I wouldn't feel so alone. I am an only child and my early life was good up until I was around 10 when I was 10 my mom go
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: How do you emotionally grow up? by Elad1 @ 08/22/16 08:13 PM

Hi Logan You are very brave to express how you feel here, your not complaining and I don't see your post as depressing. The hurt and damage can be unbearable at times and you want healing and this what is important, the healing. I did EMDR with m

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