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Jump to new posts Re: Me again by cant_remember @ Yesterday at 11:42 PM

Thanks, Ceremony. Cant
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Jump to new posts Re: Checking in On the Abuser by Blue22 @ Yesterday at 08:50 PM

I checked up once or twice, the social media way of course. All it has become is a reminder of someone living a life without consequence. It's hurtful enough that I stopped looking.
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Jump to new posts Re: a great post by Shyshark @ Yesterday at 08:11 PM

Hi Serious As you can see at the time I was having trouble with my computer ... and so I never saw your reply. I'm sorry. ((( Serious Dave ))) I hope that time has softened the pain and helped you to admire that little guy ... he was oh so strong!
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Jump to new posts Re: California Ends SOL for Rape and CSA by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:47 PM

I read truth in your post Blue22. I've also been reading about pushback from some groups, maybe like FACE, SAVE COTWA or Help Save our Sons. All four work on dismantling a victims rights by introducing the impact of lawsuits, the [he said vs she sai
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Jump to new posts Re: The voice says... by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:37 PM

Yes FF. I do battle to do what there is to do. I wonder why I do other things, than what, other things I could be doing. Like lately, so much reading, endless.... Then typing. I type like there's no tomorrow, and if the words aren't typed, I might no
Jump to new posts Re: Hello by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:17 PM

How are you doing Mothman? Best wishes.
Jump to new posts Re: Pretend by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:14 PM

Did the old idea, "fake it 'til you make it" fill some of the idea you've conveyed? It does for myself. I do write too much of late, and today,and I'm glad. That, and doing something to do whatever's next and try it. How are you doing Ttl
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:00 PM

How are you today Sterling? I've been reading a lot, and had my first Therapist meeting yesterday. He's unique to my experiences. I have a bit of homework that I've decided to do, not that he assigned. He's thinks a book by Russ Harris: "the Hap
Jump to new posts Re: The Song by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 06:50 PM

Originally Posted By MarkK"unset" our mind and find a way to believe I get that of late. There is an unchaining going on, each time I share some of the trauma, and let the details of the rape to (like using the word "rape" inste
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Jump to new posts Re: If I could meet myself as a young boy... by ForeverFighting @ Yesterday at 11:21 AM

How did I miss this, Andy? I know you’re in such a different place in life from when you wrote this. So am I. I think this story would resonate no matter where we are in life. Thank you for putting this in your signature. I would have missed i
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Jump to new posts Re: Porn healing ideas/ community project by WG @ Yesterday at 10:47 AM

I do that, too. I sometimes find myself in a situation where I'm feeling 6 again. I have come to understand through my therapist that we all make mistakes and we all don't get it 100% right all day every day. It's OK to not get things right. Its the
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Jump to new posts Re: Pain of separation- some beautiful words... by WG @ Yesterday at 08:15 AM

I, too, have never felt like anyone truly loved me for just who I am - except for a select few. My wife is the first - after 35 years of marriage she is still the one who on this earth loves me the most. My children are have grown into great adults a
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Jump to new posts Re: Lucky 13 Years by WG @ Yesterday at 08:02 AM

Victor - Sorry I didn't see your post earlier....I, too, would like to lend my congratulations to the others. I only have just over 2 years, and I have found so much help in here along with my therapist and my wife of 35 years. Be strong. I want to t
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Jump to new posts Re: What Did She Say? by zookeeper @ 09/28/16 09:39 PM

DE I do remember that section (reading was always an escape for me). You are dead on. If I could just gain some perspective, but I still seem to be flailing in the dark. But its far to costly to turn back. So on we go! Brian
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Jump to new posts Re: Some of my truths... by dark empathy @ 09/28/16 09:19 PM

Hi Rich. I'm really pleased to hear this, since I do remember from our previous correspondance how much you've struggled with several of these problems, eg, loving yourself, relating to other guys etc. I'm pleased you were able to share this, it'
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Jump to new posts Re: Overwhelmed by Sterling @ 09/28/16 12:27 PM

Good for you GMan , on doing your best and taking charge! YOu are worthy of worryfree time, and a worryfree life! TAke care, welcome here , this is the best place for love and support! James

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