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Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Dreams How They Change by KMCINVA @ 8 minutes 56 seconds ago

Lately I have been dreaming and find myself waking up laughing. My friend was here recently and she said it was nice to hear me laughing in my sleep instead of trembling and screaming with fear. I now remember some of this pleasant dreams, silly th
Jump to new posts Re: my intro to healing by Older1 @ 22 minutes 33 seconds ago

Hi Mike; Welcome back to M-S. You appear to be building a good base for your life ahead. You found this site perhaps by accident, perhaps by searching for answers concerning childhood sexual issues. It dos not matter why or how you found this site,
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: T says that I don't recognize myself as a victim by unhappycamper @ 32 minutes 34 seconds ago

Logan (& other guys): I don't have a problem with saying I was a "victim." All that means is that I was on the receiving end of a couple of crimes against the person. IMHO (and IMHX), "victim" is just a(n) historical fact, no
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts potentially useful metaphor by DannyT @ Today at 09:54 AM

Hi Guys, I've been reading a book by Thich Nhat Hanh on understanding our mind. The first verse says, "mind is a field in which every kind of seed is sown. This mind-field can also be called "all the seeds." The commentary says: &q
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by 30something @ Yesterday at 11:35 PM

(((Sterling))) (((BFree))) I'm behind you. Asa
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: ad misleads to imply trans people abuse kids by 30something @ Yesterday at 11:34 PM

Horrified and sick of this "trans people are molesters" BS. Scapegoating a vulnerable group (trans ppl) using another vulnerable group (children) as a smokescreen. Thanks for sharing, Jacob. I hadn't yet seen this. Asa
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Would I Have Acted Differently by zookeeper @ Yesterday at 08:14 PM

BookSam Im so sorry to hear that you've gone through such trauma and pain. My friend it was not your fault. You were not ready for those choices and the position you were in was untenable. Please be kind to yourself, for you have many of us know exac
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The Map by zookeeper @ Yesterday at 07:58 PM

FF What an incredible gift to know that our abusers cant touch us any more. Do I still know he did that to me? Oh yes. But damn his eyes, he will NEVER hurt me again! You make perfect sense my friend. I look and them and remember, and I'm not going
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Advice Needed by SupportiveOne @ Yesterday at 06:08 PM

My husband has a similar problem. His is because he has masterbated so frequently (many times a day) to worse and worse gay porn that he became immune to its effects and couldn't maintain an erection long enough to finish himself while masterbating o
Spirituality and Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Bible Study (notes) by nltsaved @ Yesterday at 02:21 PM

Bible study (notes) 8/21/2016 What am I building in my Heart Anytime that I find myself not walking in the newness of Christ then I am walking in self. If I do not not own the things where I am weak in then I will never change those things into s
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Sexually Confused by manipulated @ Yesterday at 12:20 PM

Originally Posted By DannyTI'm starting to think the whole labeling thing doesn't make any sense. I'm neither gay nor straight nor bi nor asexual. I'm just myself with my own blend of issues around sex. Danny Exactly! Really sick of the polarizat
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: The little boy's 2 worlds--Triggers by ForeverFighting @ Yesterday at 11:35 AM

Thank you so much guys. I've been hearing this advice a lot lately to rest and not to try too hard. I think I need to let up on the gas a little. I got to thinking about that, too. "Families like ours" don't get sick. I remember, serio

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