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Jump to new posts Re: Lucky 13 Years by victor-victim @ 8 minutes 12 seconds ago

thank you, to the 9 brothers who bothered to respond. i had hoped for more connection after 13 years. yesterday was the official anniversary date. love and respect to woodenshoes, BDD, traveler, Dan99, zookeeper, manipulated, KMCINVA, WG, and E
Jump to new posts Pretend by Tryingtolive @ 50 minutes 42 seconds ago

So many times a day I pretend. Making sure people believe I'm doing okay. So many times i pretend. Make sure I show a smile. So many times I pretend. Conversations are boring and meaningless. So many times I pretend. Being in the moment is very tough
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Jump to new posts Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. by learning2remember @ Today at 12:48 AM

Humour. He charmed people and made me think my own abuse was a joke, until I described it to therapists decades later and none of them thought it was funny. His "humour" allowed him to say unkind or shocking things and in embarrassment peo
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Jump to new posts Re: He attacked me in anger--Trigger warning by ForeverFighting @ Today at 12:24 AM

(((Ceremony))) and ((((Zoo)))), you guys keep me going. I can't explain what happened in my mind yesterday. All of my young life has been a blur with flashes. Talking to that guy in chat (you know who you are), it hit me that I do know. And I h
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Jump to new posts Re: What Did She Say? by ForeverFighting @ Yesterday at 11:53 PM

I love hearing you say those words, Brian. I. am. NOT. apologizing. one. more. time. -for being abused or anything I now have to do to recover. I feel like you and I are on the same track. This has been a nightmare of a journey for you, but seeing
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Jump to new posts Re: i love you by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:05 PM

Ok, that's true, I am a good man. Many things to work on, but good man feels right. I've read a lot again today, and written some around and about. I'm glad you responded, and the tears are Ok. I do that, and it's me.
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Jump to new posts Re: Telling others the truth by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 06:01 PM

I'm grateful FF.
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Jump to new posts Great new article on MS and our work by Chris Anderson @ Yesterday at 12:35 PM

Hi folks, wanted to post this here as it just went live yesterday. Finding Hope After Abuse: An Interview with MaleSurvivor Quote:Coming to terms with sexual abuse This was the first time, at age 33, that Anderson was taking the courageous and
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Jump to new posts 2 NEW resources from MaleSurvivor by Chris Anderson @ Yesterday at 12:31 PM

Hi everyone! I'm thrilled to announce that MaleSurvivor has just published 2 NEW resources on the website. PEER GROUP RESOURCE GUIDE - More and more research is providing support for a principle that MaleSurvivor has understood since it’s ear
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Jump to new posts Re: Once Again I'm Left Scrambling for a Place to Live by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 11:51 AM

That's a strong testament to thinking through a situation diamondheart. I can follow your timeline, your thoughts, actions and considerations. I really see you there, trying your best, as best we know. Best wishes diamondheart
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Jump to new posts Re: Overwhelmed by GMan @ Yesterday at 10:38 AM

Thanks to all. Your responses are helpful and assuring. I know that much of my stress is due to my inability to say "no." I take on far too much in an effort to be approved. I also have this propensity to have to prove I can do it mys

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