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Jump to new posts Re: What made you feel good today? by manipulated @ 48 minutes 25 seconds ago

Dinner with my adult independent daughter. Walk in a cemetary with my dog without a coat in February. In Michigan. Daughters and dogs. Unconditional love.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Complicated truth. Will it set me free? by manipulated @ 52 minutes 15 seconds ago

Oic Wow. Powerful statements of truth. I hope when the emotion settles you see the strength and poweryou just took back from the hypocritical perps in this one small post.
Gay/Bi/Trans Survivors
Jump to new posts Sometimes I feel... by Tom E. @ Today at 02:51 AM

Sometimes I feel that I don't want to be gay, I want a wife & family, all that. I wonder how I would have turned out if I hadn't been exposed to gay sex at such a young age... maybe more bisexual or something.. I'm a "bottom" mostly in
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Thoughts on Dealing With OCD, CSA, and SSA by 1islandboy @ Today at 02:35 AM

Bradley, Funny you should mention, "50 First Dates" I have been called that many times by my friends, in a joking fashion. The whole OCD thing has calmed down for me, (I respect it can come back at anytime). I used to have a thing for l
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Complicated truth. Will it set me free? by oic @ Today at 02:32 AM

Not only was I a sex slave for 15 years, I was a slave to the unrealistic expectations of a # of parents, stepparents, grandparents, step grandparents, and religious fundamentalists. I pretended for many years my childhood was good. Now I know it was
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is something wrong with me? (possible triggers) by greenwizard @ Today at 12:54 AM

I'm feeling like the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my first girlfriend was my fault. I just rolled over and let it happen because hey, at least a pretty girl was on my arm. That's what we want out of life, is it not? When writing that
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Milo advocating for intergenerational relationship by MojaveMike @ Today at 12:35 AM

Milo is clearly in denial about his own victimization.
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: cut off by MojaveMike @ Today at 12:32 AM

Sounds brutal, no matter the history it has to hurt.
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Milo advocating for intergenerational relationship by Chase Eric @ Yesterday at 11:47 PM

There has been a news story in our community yesterday regarding a child molestation at a local park. A friend of mine, who happens to be a big fan of Milo, had quite a discussion about the molestation, with everyone screaming their appropriate and
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Celibate for life by MojaveMike @ Yesterday at 11:46 PM

I have decided to stay celibate for life. I was only briefly sexually active after the incident. My T (which I think you guys use for therapist) is trying to challenge me to be open to entering a relationship. This has caused some extreme triggering.
Sexual Identity Issues
Jump to new posts Re: Thoughts on Dealing With OCD, CSA, and SSA by MojaveMike @ Yesterday at 11:38 PM

Wow, I so relate to this his post. For my OCD they give me Memantine as an off label treatment. I still have obsessions the compulsions are less of an issue.
Military Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Trouble un-twisting the truth by MojaveMike @ Yesterday at 11:23 PM

Protect Our Defenders has a discussion forum but nobody ever posts there.
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Jump to new posts Re: What made you feel good today? by traveler @ Yesterday at 11:19 PM

my daughter texted me that today is national cherry pie day - so I observed it by going out and finding a restaurant that had it and ordering a big slice - with ice cream and coffee!
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Is something wrong with me? (possible triggers) by traveler @ Yesterday at 11:13 PM

to be honest, greenwizrd, yes - the something wrong is that you have been abused. that fact and experience tends to color or infect everything in our lives - our self-image, our confidence level, our relationships, our emotions, our moods, our abilit
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Is something wrong with me? (possible triggers) by greenwizard @ Yesterday at 10:16 PM

Having another bad night it seems. I was recently reminded of my very first girlfriend. She mentally and emotionally abused the crap out of me, and I let her for nearly three years until she was done with me and found someone better. I swear, noth
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Jump to new posts Help Dealing with Porn by Trew @ Yesterday at 09:50 PM

Most of my life I didn't remember the abuse that happened to me. It was placed in a box and put away for what was probably meant to be forever. The only way I think it ever emerged was through a dream I would have on and off for most of my adult life
U.S. & World News
Jump to new posts Re: Milo advocating for intergenerational relationship by Wheatthins @ Yesterday at 09:32 PM

Milo is nothing but a facetious bottom tier troll. I'm quite enjoying his current fall from grace.
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Jump to new posts Bri by BDD @ Yesterday at 09:29 PM

This isn't polished, but I want to say it. _______________________________ If I have a class picture, I am to scared to dig it out. I googled Kindergarden boy just to see. I know I was small, but I was never that. I know I was before I was sick, b
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Progress I Have Been Told by KMCINVA @ Yesterday at 08:35 PM

Greenwizard It is the process--the church has generally been good and supportive. But the process involves many and it complicates it for everyone. I do not want to throw them under the bus, yet. It is just the reliving of the memories over and ove
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Envying Perpetrators by JohnnyC @ Yesterday at 07:54 PM

The fact we are all here, all getting better, proves we are strong. Sadly, so many boys and men have been swallowed by the darkness -- addiction, suicide, denial, self-hatred, etc.
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When I wanna dance by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:34 PM

Might as well Jump... yeah, probably comin soon to this thread, but this, this is jumpin' in the crowd to New Order. A band that's got me to live. Helped me make it. Really, it's too much, This is dance therapy for me... bobbin my head, to my hips, s
Male Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: Progress I Have Been Told by greenwizard @ Yesterday at 07:25 PM

I am sorry to hear what the Church is doing to you. I cannot imagine. I'm just dealing with one thoughtless and selfish person, and that throws me into a tailspin some days. I know it's easy to say to not let what the Church says to you get to you
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When I wanna dance by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:20 PM

This is a song that I feel good to hear. I've been listening to it for 29 years. I don't get to go to concerts, and dance in a big crowd. So, I do it to videos like this. I really like to feel the music, and this one has that for me. "Jane Says
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When I wanna dance by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 07:09 PM

I played this a 100 times this past summer when it came out. It got me out of the doldrums I was stuck in. Gawd it was hard to get into a groove, BUT, this Did it! Oh Yeah. Get down with J. Timberlake - "Can't Stop the Feeling"! Dance!
Books, Music & Films for Survivors
Jump to new posts Re: When I wanna dance by Ceremony @ Yesterday at 06:56 PM

J Timberlake does "Rock Your Body". gets the groove goin'. Gettin' sexy up in here, so take it easy! Ohh, no he did-unt... yes I did! Outkast with "Hey Ya!"
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